From Someday to Today: How Moms Can Get Their Groove Back
How often do you find yourself saying, ‘Someday I’ll focus on me’?
Maybe it’s after the kids are older, or once things calm down, or when there’s just a little more time in the day. For years, you've been the rock of your family — taking care of everyone and everything but yourself. And while that’s an incredible gift, the truth is that it’s easy to lose yourself in the process.
So many moms fall into the ‘someday’ trap — waiting for the right moment to focus on their own dreams, passions, and well-being. But what if I told you that ‘someday’ isn’t actually coming? That the perfect time to start doing something for yourself isn’t sitting in the future, but right here, today.
Why Waiting for ‘Someday’ Keeps Us Stuck
Let’s be honest: life is always busy. There will always be something demanding your attention — whether it’s family, work, or the dozens of little things we juggle every day. The problem with ‘someday’ is that it can easily turn into never. When we keep putting ourselves on hold, we slowly lose touch with what lights us up and excites us.
It’s not selfish to say, “I matter, too.” It’s self-care. more importantly, it’s self-love and it’s necessary.
Reclaiming Yourself Today
Imagine what could happen if you crossed out ‘someday’ and embraced ‘today.’ You don’t need to wait until things are perfect to start exploring what makes you you beyond motherhood and caregiving. The moment you start taking even the smallest steps toward something you love, you’re already on your way to transformation.
Have you always wanted to learn a new skill or hobby? Start today with 15 minutes of practice.
Is there a passion project you’ve been dreaming about for years? Start today by writing down your first idea.
Are you longing to reconnect with your body, mind, or spirit? Start today with one mindful moment.
No more waiting. No more hoping for the right time. You have everything you need within you to start making your dreams a reality.
How to Move from ‘Someday’ to ‘Today’
Here’s a simple truth: the only way to make change happen is to start. It doesn’t have to be huge. You don’t need a 5-year plan. All you need is to take one step, and then another. Here are a few tips for making the shift:
Prioritize Yourself
Schedule time for you like it’s a non-negotiable appointment. Whether it’s 10 minutes a day or an hour a week, that time is yours to reconnect with what excites you.Break It Down
Don’t wait for the perfect moment to jump all in. Start with small, manageable steps. If you want to write a book, start with a page. If you want to get fit, start with a walk. Every action counts.Shift Your Mindset
Stop waiting for things to calm down or get easier. The ‘someday’ mindset keeps you stuck. Instead, shift to an action-oriented ‘today’ mindset, where you take ownership of your journey right now.Celebrate Small Wins
Each step you take is worth celebrating! Don’t wait until you’ve achieved some big milestone — celebrate every little victory along the way, because it’s all progress.
Today is the Day
If you’re ready to break free from the ‘someday’ cycle, then today is your day to start. Take a moment to reflect on what you’ve been putting off, and make the choice to take action now. Your dreams and passions are just as important as anything else you take care of. In fact, taking care of you is what allows you to give your best to the people you love.
So, let me ask you: what’s one thing you’ve been waiting to do that you can start today? Let’s make it happen — one step, one action, one day at a time.
